Well...well...well... The person I was referring to in my last post showed up at my house, I guess this person FINALLY got the clue! This person came with an "I need to get my....", so I went inside and got the things they needed. I also got an "I didn't mean to hurt you", I had nothing to say to that! Then I got "some of this is yours", I said "I didn't want it" and went back inside! I guess this person REALLY thought that being face to face with them would make me cave in to them! HA! Not a chance!
I can not help this person, if they do not ask for help, but I can not stick around and take the abuse! I am not strong enough to take it, so there fore I will not!
This person thinks they have not done anything to hurt me. Well...it is the little things that build up the tend to rip relationships apart after awhile! Like being called dumb, or referiing to a color on something that belongs to you, and saying "it was uglier that that color"! Just comments in general, but then it is the BIG stuff too!
I would NEVER have treat "a friend" the way I have been treated. I would NEVER stuck my nose in the air to someone that I had just ate dinner with or talked on the phone to that same week! I guess I am different than that, but it is just how I was raised.
I also was raise with "if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all". This is why I choose to not speak to this person when I do see them. I hate to say it, but right now in my life I HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY to this person! I do forgive and forget, but I choose not to be around or be friends with these people!
I hate that a friendship has ended like this, but I DID NOT DO IT! This was brought on by the "friends". My Lovie and I were true friends to them, and when things got out of hand, we always put it behind us and moved on, well we just can not this time! Too much hurt has been caused!

"A friend loves at all times..."
Proverbs 17:17

Real friendship is a rare and precious gift, strong,
stable, yet fragile, and never to be taken for granted

A friend is someone we turn to
when our spirits need a lift,
A friends is someone we treasure
for our friendship is a gift.
A friend is someone who fills our lives
with beauty, joy, and grace
And makes the whole world we live in
a better and happier place.
-Jean Kyler McManus

Lost Friends
Like any other kind of love, friendship can be lost within our lives due to neglect or anger or, sometimes, simply circumstances. However it is lost, we often lose a part of ourselves that can never quite be recovered.

A True Friend

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